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Reflection tool

Love / Wisdom Balancer

A quick six-question check-in. Not a diagnosis — a mirror. Use it whenever a situation feels out of balance and you want a clearer look.

Question 1

Am I trying to help, fix, control, or rescue?

Question 2

Am I respecting the other person's free will?

Question 3

Am I being honest?

Question 4

Am I abandoning myself?

Question 5

Am I using logic to avoid empathy?

Question 6

Am I using love to avoid truth?